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Gman,

I hope if OM comfronts you that unleash all the fury and pain that the affair put into your chest. The same for the rest of you betrayed husbands.

Guys that become OM's are usually pretty dirty and you can usually bet that they have some shady dealings going on. Many of guys who are comfortable being an OM have no problem ROBBING the H. They usually also have no problem killing you.

Sometimes this is what they do, in many cases they can be the lowest form of parasite in the human food chain. They're looking for any and all information from which to further exploit your situation.

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well....like i said i am a better man...and most likely the kids will be around so that will keep me in check.

i am 6'2" and 235# (used to be 255 back in january before i GAL) so not afraid to unleash if i have to, but what good would that do? other than the much wanted relief of a LOT of anger...lol

remember this parasite was not just the OM - he WAS a real good friend of mine, so i feel like i kind of doubled up on.


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GMAN,

You sound good dude! Double betrayal, I cannot imagine it.

We shouldn't really do a physical altercation unless they start it. I would say, if you are face to face with the OM give him a chance to start it.

Otherwise, you should keep doing what your doing. You have been as far as DB'ing goes, very successful.

How did this weekend go?

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week-end we went on outing with about 25 people...was real fun being with couples together....until one of the women asked where another guy's W was....the response from another woman was "those two are having troubles....i think she is having A and he found out"

both W and i glanced at each other...took about 5 minutes before i could look at her again...but after that night went great and just enjoyed our time out together.

oh...from legal stand point - i will not start it....ever, but sure as hell will finish it...lol


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OM didn't show up?

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Originally Posted By: Allen A
OM didn't show up?


not yet...but only matter of time before our paths cross (not wanting to give too much detail about myself, just in case)...this is not an "IF" sitiuation it is a "WHEN"...which keeps my gut in constant turmoil daily.

on other hand - was on root of all evil yesterday (FB) and saw OM W changed her pic to one of her and him together...WTF? last i knew she had went to court and already got legal rights to the house because he moved out and signed a lease....guess she is okay with repeat offeneder now?


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