I agree two months is nothing. I don't think the dust settled for at least 6 months in my sitch.

My advice is to start reading the books suggested here and start to fully understand the meaning of a marriage.

Read other folks sitchs here, especially the ones that did succeed. Take the advice from other that you think would work for you.

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