I am sorry that you are here, but I would say that this board has been a success for 90% of the people that visit it. I see people grow stronger and wiser here everyday learning new things about themselves. The other 10% never give the site a chance.
Yes, I am one that did get a second chance at my marriage. But it was not because I did everything right. In fact, I think many of the vets here would let you know that I started out pretty pathetic. The only reason I got the second chance was because my W had the courage to see the changes I made and make changes herself. Unfortunately, we do not have control over our spouses; so a second chance can not be guaranteed.
If you listen and follow the advice of the people on this board, you will grow stronger. You will find a way out of the painful place you are now. And your life will improve.
