You mean her response was good? in what way? she's always 'nice' in her emails and interactions if that's what you mean. She's obviously thinking this is how it'll be long term to suggest the calendar idea. Not that I really want her back the way she is but still it hurts to think that someone you gave so much of your lifetime to and were planning to be with them till the end is just fine moving on. Then, to think that my DD will have to be bounced around between houses and schedules. It sucks.

I'm on the 10AM roller coaster to nowhere.


Thanks for the park idea but if I get the cake and candles then doesn't that go against what you said earlier 'if you caretake her right now she won't respect you?' I guess I'm not sure what image I should project to her.

Last edited by StupidRomeo; 04/12/10 05:47 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again