Gman,

I hope if OM comfronts you that unleash all the fury and pain that the affair put into your chest. The same for the rest of you betrayed husbands.

Guys that become OM's are usually pretty dirty and you can usually bet that they have some shady dealings going on. Many of guys who are comfortable being an OM have no problem ROBBING the H. They usually also have no problem killing you.

Sometimes this is what they do, in many cases they can be the lowest form of parasite in the human food chain. They're looking for any and all information from which to further exploit your situation.