Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[Gnosis]

I've also looked into a key logger - is it time to go there? I SHOULD have done that long, long ago. But I was thinking it might be helpful now to see if H is telling the truth or just more lies.

What do you hope to accomplish with this?

You already know about the affair. I don't think it's worth putting yourself into further emotional turmoil than what you're already going through. You don't need to know the nitty-gritty to have it haunt you in the future.

Snooping should be used to identify the affair not to prolong your agony. You don't need that Courts. Refocus on yourself. You were doing well before. I understand that its not easy and the pain is terrible at the moment.

Talking with him can wait. Let him sweat for a change while you give yourself time to reach a balanced state and can think clearly. This is of the utmost importance for you now. i.e. let the shock wear off. Then you can make a decision of what YOU want to do.