how do i keep my hope alive?

[trytryagain]

i know why he quit his job, he was miserable and hated it and felt like his boss belittled him. and i certainly wouldn't expect him to stay in a job where he felt that way, but quitting before he had anything else lined up - when he knew he had financial responsibilities to keep up with - just seems irrational to me at this point in the game.

i don't know if meeting for coffee would help. he's angry, frustrated, sad, confused...not a ball of emotions that i could be of any help with. i've told him numerous times that i'm here if he wants to talk, but he refuses to take me up on the offer. like i said earlier, he's in emotional lock down and there's not much i can do. we already divided up all of our "property" and the motorcycle that HE owns is in MY name, so that could get sticky if down the road he can't continue making the monthly payments on it...it screws MY credit, not his. all the other debts we've hammered out as to what belongs to me and what debt is his.

my IC was fine...i talked most of the time and i didn't feel like i left with a sense of "i know what i need to do" i left with a sense of "i am dealing with things pretty well but still have no solutions." she said we would tackle solutions and make some goals for me next time.