LR, it sounds like there are a lot of other people involved in your M! Even if your H gives them power, I hope that you don't. IMO you can't really get involved in his R with his sister...people have blind spots about their families and it's not your job to fix that. Your job is to protect yourself and refuse to let other people's issues be an issue in your M.

Hope that things calm down around there and that you get some peace and fun, as you deserve. hugs!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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