OK, I need some suggestions here. W replied to the b-day suggestion (she only took a day and half to reply):

"That would be nice, thanks. I don't know what time to meet but I hve a chiro appt at 3 so anytime after that. What days do you want to swap then? Maybe we can setup a googel calendar. I would like mothers day and sure you'd like fathers day too."

So she didn't indicate anything about the place, I'm thinking of suggesting a restaurant but it's always a bit uncomfortable when the restaurant workers sing h.bday and everyone turns around and looks. The other option is her place where there will be her roomate or my place but she'll have to drive back. So nothing is ideal but neither is the situation she's created for all of us.

DD still says a lot of stuff that implies that in her mind we're still the same family but mommy doesn't live with us anymore etc. But that's another post.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again