You are entitled to happiness most of the time in your marriage. You sound good. Keep in mind the ways of the WAS is in the world, and it will take advantage of your viewpoint every time. As a matter of fact, you can remain in your holy viewpoint and she will understand this, and keep on the path that she's on. Only near disaster will bring her back.
Some of the things we speak on DB are not by the bible, but they are effective in these situations. Plus it allows you to retain and build self-esteem in the fact of imminent doom.
