Just got asked for the D. W says she has caught me lying about a past PA, and that all trust is gone. Seems as if she has spent the last week trying to justify her decision to go for the D. D is going to be amicable, she says she cares for me, but does not want to be married to me anymore. Says we just didn't nuture our marriage, and that this is the hardest, saddest thing she has every had to do. Told her I wanted to remain friends, and that this is very sad. Is all hope lost for me? Sure does feel like it.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012