The motivation has to come from within you. I can give you good reasons why you should want to stand for your marriage, but it's ultimately your choice to make.
Start with this: * Why do you want to be married to your husband? What about your relationship makes you want it to continue? * What changes in your relationship are you willing to live with in order to have it continue? * What do you need from him in order to work on the relationship?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
