I would lead with examples of how SHE had bad news for YOU, and how you had to handle that...
This is a very subtle form of bullying, if she keeps it up, you will only want to tell her good news... and that is NOT good for a marriage. She can't bully all the bad news into the ground just because it's painful for her to hear.. its NOT good for you OR her in the long term... not to mention its bad for your kids.
lol...so my initial knee jerk reaction was to tell her to get the (insert explecitive her)out of our house...not the best example of how to handle something do ya think.
kind of what i was telling her - some days will be good others will be bad....and the day OM and i come face to face....well that might just be plain fun! not for him sleeping with my W but for the things he said about my children and they way they will grow up with my negative attitude (which is gone these days thanks to lots of people on here pointing me in the right dirrection)
anyhow....that confontation will be a whole diffrent topic (it will be soon though as baseball is getting in full swing)
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
