Ok, I h presented me with a new "opportunity" this morning. At the meeting with our lawyers where we tried in vain to agree on spousal support, they all agreed we should go somewhere to have our taxes done by someone else. My h has done them most of the time, but we have used the local tax service sometimes, too. We agreed during the meeting that we could be civil and adult and go together.

Well, this morning he finally answers me (after I had asked him this last week) that I could go ahead and make an appointment. Then he adds, or you could just come pick up the paperwork that I already have inside my car and just get them done. I told him that I would call and see what appointments she had available first.

Well, I called and of course this being the last few days before the dreaded tax day, she only has an appointment available Thursday at 9 A.M. They told me I would just have to take the paperwork to him at work and come back so they could get them filed in the afternoon.

In all of our years together h has always taken care of this stuff. He always has his opinion about how it should be taken care of. When we did go together, he always had questions or comments for the tax preparer.

I find it hard to believe that now he is going to trust me to take care of this. And, I realize there really isn't anything to take care of. She just puts the numbers in the boxes and out come your results. I guess I am just feeling like I will be damned if I do, and damned if I don't. He will likely have some comment about how I was the one who took care of the taxes.

When I asked him if it was alright for me to go to his work and pick up the papers, he said "yes, but don't come after work...I don't want any drama." I told him I didn't see a need for any drama as I was just going to pick up his papers. He said well, just come during the day, the car door is unlocked. Which is another surprise to me, because this man trusts no one and locks everything up!

I admit I am hurt that he apparently hates me so much he doesn't even want to lay eyes on me. But, then again I have no desire to get into a war with Monster and have my entire day upset!!! I hate this blasted MLC with a passion!!!