Spouse Suffering From Depression

[Lucky11too]

Ok, this just keeps getting better and better. H texts me in the middle of the night. I thought about ignoring it but my curiousity got the best of me and then I just needed to say my peace. It goes:
H - I just wish after all this time gone by, you would know me better. After today, I feel more distant.
Me - I do know u. But that's why I need u to let me know your plans too. I cna't read minds. Right now, I get to know your patterns & that's all I have to go by. I wasn't trying to keep anything from u or make u angry & I'm sorry to have upset u. I know u feel distant again. I think we just need to make sure to have time together each week to just be together but also to discuss S & our plans. I know this journey is hard but it's worth the fight.
H - I'm over any kind of fight or struggle. I need someone who I can count on no matter what. And I don't feel that from you.
Me - Well, despite what u think, I am & always will be.
H - It's not what I think, its what I have to learn
Me - Then exactly. You should have learned that I've been here for u, fought for our M, supported u w/ your ADD, depression, & sleep apnea, etc. Well I just hope u really think about what u are saying by all this. Up to u, but I wouldn't exchange all these good days b/c of one bad day.
(No other responses from H)

Can you believe that???! What nerve! I just wanted to say some great comeback to really get thru to him, but it seems to be in vain. This is just so ridiculus. After all the heart, soul, and fight that I've put into him and this M, for him to say I'm not someone he can count on is just so hurtful, and man, it sure stung bad. I don't know if he's just at a low point or what, or if this is the real thing - the finalely - but that was not fair to say to me. And to make such a huge deal out of something so minor...arrrgg. I don't even know what to do with H now. If he wants to go then he can go, there's not much more I can say. I just go on with my life without him. It's just so sad after all the progress we were making. It's hard to believe just last weekend, he was flowering me with love and gifts for my b-day...

Anyways, I'm just beyond exhausted now. Several things woke me up before that text with things with S, so I really didn't get much sleep at all. Unfortunately I have a busy day ahead and I almost feel too tired to function.