God would have me be firm, keep to the law, and be loving. Be ready to accept true remorse and asking for forgiveness, but not accept any BS. He also would not condone or help along the person doing wrong.
I will not do his laundry, shopping, cooking, etc while he is doing these things to me. This is a start. Have to continue to think this through.
I will let him know this afternoon at lunch (in a few minutes) that I will not condone him destroying two families the way he is and I want accountability for his actions and whereabouts.
