Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[pearlharbr]

Court, have you read anything on dealing with infidelity? I recommend starting with Not Just Friends. I didn't read it until I started piecing but would have found it even more helpful had I read it earlier. It does talk about your emotions just after finding out and how to process it. And it also has chapters on how to work through it if you decide to stay and if you decide to leave.