I haven't been at it long enough and to be honest, DBing would have been more successful up to this point if I had truly stuck to it and not let me emotions take over.
I will tell you that anytime I have DBd, even if only for a day, I have seen results! The key is to continue doing it (which I still find hard to stick to because of my stupid emotions).
Good luck! The way I look at it is what do I have to lose? I feel as though I have already lost everything! At least, in the end, if we are not together, I know I did what was best for me and my family and I will have no regrets. It's better than thinking I could of, would of, should of, KWIM?
Good luck!!
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson