I think a lot of us didn't really realize that we were not truly happy. We were not unhappy, just not who we could have been. I did things I wouldn't want to do, and didn't do things that I wanted to do to keep the other happier. But I think that is pretty normal after years of marriage. I became someone that I am truly not. And now I can be who I want to be. But hey, I can't go back to yesterday, I was a different person then.
