how to get past it.....

[gman]

figured i am not quite a newbie anymore so i would post in here as i have no idea where to post....

you can catch up on my situation below.

so things are going well with W and I, getting along better than ever. I love my W and want to re-build our M which is happening right now. Problem i am having is getting past the fact that she shared...for lack of better words "intimate moments" with another man. The mental movies are subsiding...but i am still having hard time getting past knowing that she did and shared sexual things that she did with me with another man.

I am working on forgivness, but how the hell can i, when i am having trouble getting past the fact she had sex with OM?

gma