Here's my take and I hope that I'm totally off base...but two tires split in that short of a time period? No, someone is up to no good once again.
Now about the roommate deal... don't you find it rather strange that he would come talk to you today after your had your tires sliced? Don't buy into it...unless it's a woman, do not take a man into your home for rental purposes. I know you can see advantages, but I think you are being played.
As for your daughter, leave her be....she's like a mlcer....needs to learn on her own. The more you try to show her what is up, the more she's going to go the other way.
Please be careful....I do think you are being played.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for caring so much. You make my heart melt.
As for my tires, I've had problems here with my tires for much longer than this man has been working in this pasture. Argh, my tires have been going flat with nail after nails for well over a year. Since my mechanic has been counting them for me, and storing the evidence, and me, not reacting or responding, just going on with life, of course, there would come a day when my tires would become worse. This is my third or fourth set of used tires I've had on my car in the last four of five months...
I know very well, it's hard to find a place to live locally, and this is the reason I'm being asked for a place to stay. He mentioned a week ago he wasn't happy with where he was living now. I didn't asked, but assumed he was renting a room somewhere. The only reason that came up, was the large (dumped) dog I have here, took to him in such a way, I yelled over to the man, take him, he seems to really like you. He then told me he would, but couldn't because of where he lives.
I also know the Farmer he works for, he has young daughters, a beautiful wife, and this man wouldn't be working for him if he had a sorted past. Knowing this doesn't change my mind.
I see the way the man looks around here, and takes a deep breath in when he does. Country is in his blood, he's just looking for a quiet place to hang his hat at night, and the freedom to set on the front porch to listen to the frogs, crickets, owls, sing their nightly tune, while watching the firefly ballet.
Still, with all of this in mind, it doesn't change my mind. Oh, I can feel for the man, for I know he's not been able to find a place of his own to rent... it took me a long time too. He will find something. He's probably thinking I'm not around much, and could probably use the help. He's right about that. But I'm too much of a loner... oh, I can think about things, but to actually have someone around, is NOT what I truly want. I have too many issues, and it's not fair to anyone else... So, don't worry, I'm not going to allow this man to move in. I just thought it was funny, just when I thought I knew my direction, something pops up that could possibly change it.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
I think about you often. I come on the board to check on you. I am glad you did update even though you are still going through a difficult time. I know one day you will get everything you deserve. I am sorry it is taking so long and that your children are suffering because of it. I think in the end they will come out stronger because you are such a great mom. They have a good solid foundation. I have you and your children in my prayers.
So good to hear from you. Yes, I think of you often, wondering how you've been too. Your kindness means a lot to me, always has. I thank you for posting to me.
As for me, I'm okay. Sometimes stuck in trying to keep a "home" for just me.... seems I really don't have the energy I once had for doing things around here. I tell myself this is the way it was going to be once the kids left for college.... it doesn't always leave me feeling good about things.
Threw Dick a curve ball last weekend... Last weekend was prom for my son and his class. Of course that meant prom pictures by a professional photographer at the dance itself. Well, the kids didn't tell Dick, so he was unable to send money in time, and only had a credit card to offer S. Of course I was there with S as Dick was on the phone.... I offered to pay for a package for him and then he could S the money for them. I gave S explicit orders that Dick doesn't get these pictures until he gives him the cash to cover the costs. Dick doesn't know I've explained to S that Dick has shorted me on pictures a couple of time, and he won't do it again.
Just my offer, threw Dick into off enough he couldn't speak.... so continuing on the high road, although difficult, allows me to show my kids, I'm not the person Dick has made me out to be.. which makes it all worth it, in the long run. Has Dick paid S yet? Nope.... No surprise there.
I still would like to clear my name where the court is concerned, and show them all the lies Dick has made up in order to come out looking like the poor victim.... Maybe someday I'll get a chance.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
You sound like you are doing as good as you can be. You are amazing that you have not let any of this defeat you. I know it has been difficult but you have always preserved. I know everything will be as it should be for you one day. By far you have the most difficult stitch on here. I will keep you in my prayers.
I'm not sure I haven't been defeated, for I used to be so much more than I am today. Although, it could be the RA stealing my energy that as me on a low keel.
Ellie was kind to send me an article for medication I'd love to try, however, finding someone out here in the backwards land of Oz, that will prescribe it, is another story. Found a compounding pharmacy, but even my family practitioner hasn't heard of the stuff.
Ahh, well, like you say, things will work out... eventually.
Hugs and kisses to you and your girls. They must be getting big... how old are they now? Does your former have much to do with them? Regardless of what he does, I know you will keep them safe.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
Hi Laughing, I think you do not give yourself enough credit for your strength and endurance during this. Things will work out eventually for your family. My girs are 11 and 7. D7 has bday coming up and her First Communion. Their father is actually not bad. He really came through this week for them and me. But I still have to micro manage their schedules and mine. They are doing well both in and out of school. It is great for me because I have been busy with my schooling and they have been so supportive. I am taking them to Europe this summer with about 15 other members of my family.
I'm not too crazy about having them on the road between California and Kansas by themselves.... however, I'm trying to focus on the idea she wants for me to meet her boyfriend, and she wants to spend time here.
She mentioned she's been grounded and her phone has been taken away. She said it was because she thought she could speak to her Father, like she speaks to me (realistically, and to the point, the way she feels about something) and ole Dick grounded her for her entire Spring Break and took her phone away.
She's been sneaking onto the computer when he leaves for work. She also mentioned becoming emancipated, she also said Dick is going to help her with this. She's trying to rush "growing up" and becoming independent... I'm not sure exactly why, except I do know she's as tired of the court scene as I am, and this maybe the reason she wants to emancipate herself.
Right now, I'm just sitting back and watching things develop.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
