Originally Posted By: dmkdmkdmk
But he is completely in control of how he chooses to behave.


This is where you are wrong. Even if he KNOWS what he has done and is doing, he ISN’T in control of it. Not like we would like them to be anyway.

I was worried how your letter would go over…

But you are strong and you stated your boundaries. What happens after that, well that is up to him. And you know that.

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And when he comes out of the process, and realizes what he lost, then... his loss.


This reeks of anger. Please try to work on that. For you. For those girls.

(((hugs)))


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox