She questions what I do while Im working, like oh, you don't work every minute of every day. last time she even said something about looking at porn at work, I work in front of two girls at the office, porn?
So, last night I went downstairs and asked her opinion on how to handle something at work, trying to get her envolved more, and show her the kinds of decisions I struggle with on a day to day basis. Well, she was short and not very responsive, so I said, "Mrs. dburt, why so cold?" She said, "Im not cold I have a jacket on", I said, "towards me."
She said, "why do you ask that, you know why." I told her, "i'm going forward, I am fighting every day for money for this family, and I am fighting everyday for this marriage, you can sit there and be miserable, but I am moving forward."
I went to bed and when she came in, she said nothing crawled in on her side and had to be hanging over her edge.
I said nothing this morning but to leave the checkbook and the bills on a desk upstairs (Im taking that over).
I am thinking about texting her to call me to make any purchases at all, down to a Sweet Tea, until we can get the budget envelopes out again.
