How to approach W about OM

[TrentC]

Like they say, in the battle you are in with her at this stage - "the one who cares least wins".

But what does he win?

If you can find a way to "knock" her out of the mentality without touching her, that will be in your advantage.

Yes, because if you try to "knock" her out of that mentality by touching her, that's likely to be considered physical violence.

If this is the kind of advice you've been getting, OIN, then I wish you well in your rapidly-approaching divorce.