Sent the email. No reply as yet.
Will be interesting to see if he does make the counseling call.
I know I shouldn't care and just have to focus on me now.

Young brother in law arrives in 2 days from o/seas for an indeterminate amount of time.
He'll be staying with me (we're close, this was always the plan - prior to bomb - and I'm the one with accomodation).

Plan:
Not to talk about WAH unless asked
Not try to convince BIL that I am right.
Get on with preparing for the birth with minimal upset and interruption.
Continue to GAL as much as is possible

Questions:
If discussing WAH and our sitch, how open should I be?

Should I leave literature around about infidlity and parenting, etc ?