Your triggers are that you are worried history is going to repeat itself to S.. Try to remember that you can control what support S gets from you and that how you teach him to deal with this.. Go and reread the part of Passionate Marriage where he teaches his daughter to self soothe and think how you can teach S to do the same with his feelings of abandonment.. again dont let S see your feelings about him being abandoned.. Its all extremely hard at the moment, but I do like the idea of settin it all in stone in an email, for both organisational reasons and later maybe in a custody case!
Huge hugs
Rabbit
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