Just an update though. I woke up at 2 and noticed she was gone. I found her outside on the phone. Calmly went back to bed. When she came in, she said that she doent think she can stay married. That it's not fair to me that she has feelings for this other person. I didn't and haven't had much of a response. I told her that she knows how I feel and I can't be too upset because we let ourselves get to this point.
