Scott- pls be careful and change your user name now if that's your real name. My H just found my entire thread despite me changing my name and has read it all. You need this to be a safe place- change all your p/w's, clear out the history on your browser every time you use it and lock your computer when you're not there. If you buy the DB book, hide it well from her. I know I sound paranoid, but I just lost access to all the wonderful support I've found here for the past month, AND my H now knows all that I was trying to do, which I think has made me totally lose my chance with him.
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
