Mariage Row or Marriage Bliss?

[june72]

OTMT,
OMG, how can I say this. You are your own worst enemy at times.
When my hubby told me over and over it was done. I had a STRONG resolve. I am for the marriage and will do whatever it takes to keep this family united. Do you not think I had serious doubts at times? I kept them to myself. This is not the time for fickleness? Get it? Take a stand and do not waver, ever. That is exactly what your wife wants nothing less. She wants to see that you can be put through the wringer and still stand for her and the marriage.

I mean, come on, you really, really did do some serious offenses here and I do not think you are getting that. A porn addiction and a SSM for the wife is a deal breaker for the majority of women. Also, she feels (wheather is true or not) that you were emotionally abusive and I think emotionally unavailable. Again, reasons why a woman would have a hard time staying in the marriage.

She has VERY VALID reasons to waffle about commitment with you. YOU NEED TO HAVE STRONG RESOLVE AND FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE not put demands upon her. YOu need to do the hard work to get this right.

Any why in yhe world are you not more concerned for your five kids. D is devistating to them. For them alone shouldn't you bust your butt over repairing this?.....