I just ordered the books today and am very anxious to read them. I'm at home now and my wife is acting like normal, except she was quick to stop my hug when I got home. I'm sure she's acting normal because of the kids. But to know that the woman sitting in the same room doesn't feel affection for me anymore is devastating. She's planning a trip to Vegas for her brother and cousins 40th borthdays and I just started a new job so it was never the plan for me to go but she seems very happy. At least I'll have the kids all to myself for that week! I really don't know how people survive this pain. I mean......really!