Fortunately, I am not dealing with OM (or at least there has been no evidence of it in 4 mos). Once in a while, I drop by her place randomly and she always lets me right in. We typically talk 2 or 3 times per week.
I know the main change my W is looking for....my job. There are a couple of other things, too, but job is the big one. Said she has just felt for too long like I did not step up.
She said she is willing to see if that will change now, but it will be from a distance in case it doesn't.
