One last thought:

I am not an expert on such things, and I'm not sure that your H fits the profile, but you might take a look at the Midlife Crisis forum.

They have very good advice on dealing with WAH's, and can help you figure out if he is going through an MLC; they can be triggered by traumatic events such as the death of a child.

And of course, there is always The Prayer Circle...

Last edited by TrentC; 04/12/10 03:49 AM. Reason: Added link to The Prayer Circle
Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."