In the first week of my sitch I sucsessfuly proved to my wife that I was willing to make changes. She told me that she was holding off on calling a lawyer and that she needed to think. I kept on doing home improvements, being a better dad, etc. then wife told me after 4 days that she was not changing her mind.
She called her lawyer and never looked back. After I told her that I was able to change she said. "I dont think anyone can change, especially after only a week." Then I got the "it's not you it's me." speech. I want my life back, blah blah blah. Other man was heavy on the mind I guess.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final