Huband is having an emotional affair

[ALJ]

I have thought about the legalities of our situation regarding the kids but I haven't really looked into it. Right now, I wouldn't be able to afford a lawyer to look into these matters.

I talked with H today after he talked to the kids and, unlike his carefree facebook statuses, he sounds beaten down and stressed and he kept sighing, not really knowing what to say to me. I am sure his lack of money and inability to find a job is the cause of this. He has created a big mess of things but instead of trying amend our family and face reality, he will keep down this destructive path to prove his point of not wanting this marriage.

I am thinking that if I send this e-mail, H will read it and maybe raise a fuss and then debate his side how he feels about me and our marriage, feel even more guilty and ashamed, or he might even ignore it because he won't know how to respond to it. He is not in any position to challenge me on anything regarding the kids or child support. He does not have the funds to do so. Unless there is some place that offers free legal advice, I am limited in my actions when it comes to dealing with a lawyer. Should I still wait before I send the e-mail to him?