I am struggling with this too. The person I believed in is not here. She is guilty only of her own pain and confusion. But that does not excuse her.
I am just trying to figure whether I want to make a life with someone that can make these kind of decisions. I mean it does call into question some core values that I hold very sacred.
The most important goal in this process in my opinion is to get you in a better place so you won't make a rash decision.
My IC has pulled me back to every 2 weeks. She thinks I'm in a good place. I don't want the rollercoaster of W and whether she is going to see "the light" to get in the way of my wellbeing.
I'm sorry I am detaching but there is a part of you that still hopes AND HAS TO if you want your M.
We don't have kids and yes it will be my 2nd D but WTF?
I don't know just ranting I guess.
Bill Cosby is funny! Glad you and your mama had fun!
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am