Puppy I used some of your wording from above in a text w my H today. Some of his texts (I'm cross posting this):
"I'm ready to help myself but I don't know if that means be your husband. I am just now starting to be able to think about things with some sense of perspective. And not just make the easy decision or the selfish one."
"I don't want to keep you in limbo. It's just that I can't force myself to make these decisions and learn or understand or see what I need to do. They have to happen. And I know you may be gone by the time they do. And maybe that will be what I want and maybe it won't but I can't keep you in limbo and I can't rush these decisons before I truly understand them so that's where I'm at--upside down".
Thoughts? Suggestions? Insight? Thanks.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
