YOu're absolutely right. I know I backslid and I know I need to be firmer. I'm planning on setting the schedule each week by email so I have a trail in case it ever helps me in custody hearings (although our state is pretty inflexible in terms of veering from the 50% 50% custody rule).

I'm just so glad to have had a break today it gave me time to cool down. I had been steeming since last night and although I felt completely in my right to call him on his irresponsibility, you are right Kalni and FM in that I"m expecting decency and consideration where there is none.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship