Yesterday, can you believe it. My W gave R advice to a 20 year old girl. It all started when this young girl came in and asked my W if she ever saw her BF with another woman. I know the young man and their stich isn't the best. My W told her to do what she had to do. She also told her his abusive words hurts more being physical. Somehow I felt some of her coments were directed my way. I know the young woman too so I felt I had to teach her some DB'ing.
I told her she needs to GAL. I reminded her how beautiful she is and how she is a good person. It looks like he has lost the value of his R with her. I suggested she stay with a GF for a few days and let him miss her. I suggested she go out instead of staying home and learn to do things without him. My W was there and she listened to all the DB'ing advice I had to offer.
Somehow I feel like I might have showed my W all the DB'ing secrets or at least some of the most effective ones. In the end I told this young lady only she will know what she can put up with. I did tell her that if he's abusive physicall or mentally she should leave.
