CL, Sorry it's been so long! It sounds like you're still moving along nicely and you continue to learn a lot about your own behaviors and emotions.
I think it's really great that you and your W share your passion for dancing. It's something that the two of you can bond over and also gives you physical contact.
I really admire your effort in rebuilding your M. Go you!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track