It's the quiet times that hurt the most. That's when ghosts come out. But you know what? They only stay as long as you let them.
Everyone that told you that you cannot change him, was right. You cannot. I'm in a similar boat and I think we left the paddles on the floor. <G> They are there, but we haven't used them yet. I know why, but I haven't figured out why not.
You are doing very well. It's stressful and if you do not back off, you will get sucked into the craziness. I did. Not good. Wore me out. I stopped fighting the divorce. Does it matter? Not to her. But it's not about me. I know that. You seem to know that as well yet you want some answers. I feel that pain. I do.
Your friends? They really don't want to see you hurt. Best way is to not say too much about it. Come up with a story and stick with it.
Stay sane. Forgive and understand
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
