Yes you do. I would challenge you to ask yourself why you have sought out and accepted this relationship for so long. The only way it makes sense is if you thought a better person is there...lurking...underneath.
Do you believe that? I know that's what keeps me in because the good in my W is there...somewhere.
The more time that goes on I think that she's just gone. How long do you wait for them to catch up to you?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am