With the OIN, I think its best if you kept any private information on your PC at work or at least someplace else that she wont' look at. You locking things down does NOT help your case at ALL right now...
She has trust issues, is ready to walk, and you start locking down your phone? I dunno... I would put my private contacts (OMW etc) on my work PC that she doesn't see or something like that... don't you have a desk or something at work?
