I'm sorry I haven't responded to your post, I just haven't been on this site in a long time.
I agree, I think your ex sending you the payment is a control issue! And, he is wanting you to complain. That is the way it is with me, the ow is sending me the alimony check & it has been late every month since she changed banks. I got it on the 9th this month but usually it has been the 11th or 12th, I'm supposed to receive it by the 5th. She wants me to complain but there is no way I will email her. She doesn't know if I'm getting her emails or not since I don't respond. The check is coming in her name only, I don't know what that is all about unless she is hiding money from my ex. Who knows??
These ex's they just don't know what they have gotten themselves into with these ow, I know the ow my ex is with is crazy & I'm not using that term lightly, it's the true.
