Most of your exchanges she appears to communicate that "I am not really with you". However bursting the affair is kind of leaving things, where the logical and GOOD choice is just to bring her ass all the way back home. However PRIDE and EGO will get someone to make the wrong choice, even the the goo dchoice is much better for them, and they know it. They'll lie. I hope yours works out to your favour. You sound like a good man.