Yes it is a great analogy OP - thank you - I am (just) old enough to remember the cinema (in the UK) with proper reel to reel film.....we could also smoke in those days too!!
I do get the fact that I have choices about my actions and I can only control my actions to the situation - noone elses at all.
Sometimes it is just hard to see the wood for the trees and not be tempted by your brain, when it is tired and hormonal, into a land of make believe.....but I do try - honestly I do try!
looking forward to a good week ahead - kids are back at school from Tuesday and life will be 'new normal' again
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011