Yes it is a great analogy OP - thank you - I am (just) old enough to remember the cinema (in the UK) with proper reel to reel film.....we could also smoke in those days too!!

I do get the fact that I have choices about my actions and I can only control my actions to the situation - noone elses at all.

Sometimes it is just hard to see the wood for the trees and not be tempted by your brain, when it is tired and hormonal, into a land of make believe.....but I do try - honestly I do try!

looking forward to a good week ahead - kids are back at school from Tuesday and life will be 'new normal' again

lalxx


Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011