Pearl:
Changes I have made: new perspective re: time allotment, personal time, reducing workload, more diligent around the house, more attentive, much calmer than in recent years, despite the hellish nightmare I have been in for the past 9 months.....

...not even sure she has noticed....

..am going to agree to D, and focus on GAL. Maybe W will see changes over time, but maybe not...

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012