A few months ago H and I started reading parts of Not Just Friends together - the chapters on Healing Together (ch.13) and Forgiveness and Moving Forward (ch. 14). I knew my H would never sit through the whole book so I focused on those two chapters. I read the chapters aloud (H preferred this) for about 20-30 min. each time and then we would discuss some of the issues in there. It was difficult but extremely beneficial. H commented that it was difficult for him to hear some of the stuff in the book but that it was all "very true". Just a suggestion of how you may want to approach it with H..
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
