SDFoundGirl, Wow! I can tell you I'm ready to commit to improving myself and have mentioned this prior to the bomb. I hope she recognizes at least a shred of sincerity in my actions.
I'm glad to know you still have a marriage to work on and hope I can say the same thing as we move forward. I'm so serious about doing whatever it takes. So, changes for me and my kids, stay calm, and and understand I'm not supposed to say "I Love You" anymore. That's tough because I've siad those words from my heart for many years!