So she wants you to try councelling. is that MC-marriage councelling or IC- individual councelling. If its MC, maybe things aren`t as bas as you think.

Sandi2 and Puppy are two of the best on this site. They both have stated that you cannot seem so needy or clingy right now and believe, i know how hard it is not to be. But they don`t see it as attractive and not worth going back to. Try real hard to not be that way. Crying in front of her must stop, She will not feel sorry for you but will resent your weakness.

180 btw is doing the opposite of what you are doing. In other words, if you are pursuing, do the exact opposite. I know it sounds like a school age game but it is important.

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M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
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