well I got all your fabulous advice too late. I completely blew it!
H still doesn't call me - so after work around noon I call he doesn't answer. He calls back and I told him how angry and hurt I was that he didn't return my calls and my job would have been on the line if I had a sick child I couldn't bring. Why do I keep thinking he will actually care how I feel?
H totally shuts me down. He says he's not interested in "being baited" and listening to me "trying to have the moral high ground" and other accusations. He says he's not interested in talking about how we "disagree" about what happened this weekend and the last two where I felt ditched.
I said if he doesn't communicate with me or he dictates what we can and can't talk about then I may assume things that aren't true about him. He goes on about how I'll never listen to him so he's not going to bother...it went nowhere.
